Some of us are more relaxed about physical contact than others. For some of us a hug, a gentle tap on the shoulder, or a quick embrace comes easy and feels like a natural thing to do when we see someone who seem to be experiencing some form of distress. Some of us on the other hand, may have complicated and confusing emotions when it comes to expressing compassion and or care through physical contact.
In my experience, there are times in life when words just aren't enough when it comes to comforting someone in distress, no matter how sincere and heartfelt the words.
Sometimes we just need to be "touched". And when I say touched, I mean touched not in a manipulative or calculating way, but in a "I am here with you to help you through this" kind of way.
Don't tell me everything's gonna be okay,
things will get better, tomorrow's another day.
Coz as true as those words may probably be
would you mind very much just holding me?
Don't tell me you know just what I feel,
or that broken hearts, they always heal.
Coz as true as those words may probably be
would you mind very much just holding me?
Don't tell me to forget bad days gone by,
though such advice is worth a try.
Coz as true as those words may probably be
would you mind very much just holding me?
Don't tell me my experience is not unique,
many hearts are broken every day every week.
Coz as true as those words may probably be
would you mind very much just holding me?
I know you mean well with what you say
you're trying to help me get thru the day.
As true as your words may probably be
would you mind very much just holding me?
(Citizen Z)
"Sometimes I think that a moment of touching may be the difference between utter despair and the ability to carry on."
(Eleanor Cameron)
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