Waiting is an opportunity, not a waste of time........

Before I started to paint, I used to do a lot of photography.

I loved my old Analogue SLR and together we shot

many, many photos. Alas, along comes digital cameras

and out went films and the need for labs. 

I bought myself a digital camera, but, I never warmed to it.

I started to paint instead.

Now, many years later, due to torn rotator cuffs and

bursitis in my neck and shoulders, I can no longer paint.

Alas, I have decided to go back to photography as it

does not hurt.

(The above image is a photo I shot in my kitchen an 

hour ago with my crappy, old, low pixel rate,

digital camera.)

Satisfying though it is to instantly be able to see the

image, I have to admit that I miss the waiting for

the ''reveal'' while waiting at the lab for photos

to be developed.

(Although, truth be told, I don't miss the cost involved

with having films processed.)

Waiting, come to think of it, is something many of 

us don't like very much.

Perhaps how we experience the passing of time may have

something to do with how we view waiting?

''Life is short, so I need to cram as much of it into every passing

moment as I can.''

This is of course where i-Thingy's come in handy.

Wherever/whenever we find ourselves having to wait, we can

always fill the time (make use of time) by ''surfing the net'',

listening to music, checking emails, catching up with friends,

etc.etc.

There is no doubt about how very handy it is

to be able to do those things, but lately, I have 

been wondering if it is not possible that we may

miss out on actual ''living experiences'' when we

forfeit it for ''virtual'' ones.

Waiting, for some of us, may feel like we are

''wasting'' our time, so we may feel a need to fill

 it with something we deem more useful.

But, often when we are waiting somewhere,

we are not doing so in a void. Usually, there

are others waiting as well.

At the doctors, in a queue, at the bus/train stop, at the airport,

etc.etc. 

These sorts of situations can be opportunities for

making new connections, for observing life

in the moment, for just ''being''.

According to those in the know, more and more of

us are feeling alienated and lonely.

And I can't help but wonder if our ''obsession'' and

preoccupation with i-Thingy's perhaps has something

to do with that.

If we replace face-to-face interaction with 

virtual interaction, there is some research that

suggest that rather than feeling closer to others,

we feel more isolated.

However, if we use social networking to promote

face-to-face conversations, then the outcome is often

that we feel less lonely.

An i-Thingy can perhaps feel like a ''security blanket'',

but consider this,

is it possible that it can also be viewed as a

''Do Not Disturb'' sign?

Next time you are waiting(for whatever),

why not keep your i-Thingy turned off

and just use your waiting time to 

observe everything around you.

''Life only happens in the Now.''